Jesus:
My child, it is very important that you learn how to love your neighbour with charity and understanding.
The first cause of misunderstanding is the basis for the collapse in a relationship, because just as criticism destroys affection and respect, misunderstanding and lack of charity destroys relationships.
Use the powers of your reason to think as the other person thinks in order to please them and to tolerate them. I am not asking you to approve all the evil in others, but you must accept them as they are because you can’t change them but you must pray for the graces they need to change.
If I didn’t understand you, all my judgments would be without mercy.
I am your Merciful Lord, I don’t expect great sacrifices from you, but I expect you to be merciful as I am Merciful.
Don’t seek to be understood with all your points of view but rather seek to understand.
I love you so much when you love with charity and understanding.

 Messages from Jesus, Mary and God the Father - LOVE WITH CHARITY AND UNDERSTANDING